For anyone who wants to learn how to be polyamorous, this course provides you with self-paced lessons to help you explore your romantic relationship options and needs.

A Guide to Open Relationships and Polyamory

A multi-media course to help you get started with an open relationship or polyamory.

Begin the Course

How to be polyamorous

A frequent question that we get asked is “How do I start a polyamorous relationship?” The answer to this question can be quite overwhelming. Our course goes beyond the basic do’s and don’ts of polyamory and ethical non-monogamy. The Guide to Opening Up course will take you on a journey that will guide you towards a deeper understanding of your needs, desires and values in relationships, and how to be a better partner to yourself and to your partners.

A Guide to Open Relationships and Polyamory is a multi-media course that helps you deal with the fears and challenges that come up when you start exploring non-monogamy. This 25-video online course lets you watch and learn as Conor and Brittany explain how to open up your relationship. Begin your journey to an open relationship with a clear plan and a supportive environment.

Embrace your openness

Everything you need to know about opening up your relationship

If you have ever thought about, or are even considering opening up your relationship, this course is a must-have! The goal of this course is to teach you everything you need to know in order to successfully start and maintain an open relationship, be it one that is polyamorous, sexually open, ethically non-monogamous or any other form of open relating. The course is structured around 25 Videos, 10 Exercises, and 2 Bonus Raw Processing Videos that will teach you everything you need to know. You will watch the videos, do some exercises and get the tools that you need to begin your journey.

Topics covered include:

Part I

Opening Up: What is Polyamory?
Module 1: What are the Different Types of Polyamorous Relationships?
Module 2: Does Polyamory Work? Is Polyamory Ethical and Legal?
Module 3: What are the Benefits Reported by People Who Practice Polyamory?
Module 4: How to Know if Polyamory is Right For You
Module 5: What is the Difference Between Polyamory and Polygamy?
Module 6: What is the Difference Between Polyamory and Promiscuity?
Module 7: What is Fidelity in Polyamorous Relationships?
Module 8: What You Should Know Before You Start a Polyamorous Relationship
Module 9: Understanding Your Motivation for Transitioning to Polyamory
Module 10: How to Start A Polyamorous Relationship and Make it Work
Module 11: How to Successfully Convert - Transition to Polyamory
Module 12: How to Propose or Bring up Polyamory
Module 13: Timing Matters: When and How to Tell Someone That You’re Polyamorous
Module 14: What to Do After Confessing That You're Polyamorous to Your Partner
Module 15: How to Explain Polyamorous Relationships to Family, Friends, and Coworkers
Module 16: How to Come Out as Polyamorous
Module 17: Common Challenges to Polyamorous Relationships
Module 18: What to Do When Polyamory is Not Working
Personal Coaching: Personal Polyamory Coaching Consulting. Our personal coaching is a one on one experience that offers you the time and space to articulate the questions, thoughts, frustrations and experiences you are having in your polyamorous relationships. From there we work together to help you work through those issues and create a plan that works for you.

Part II

Module I: Finding Your “Why”
Video: Finding Your “Why”
Exercise 1: Finding Your “Why”
Module II: Creating A New Paradigm
Video: Opening Takes Time + Finding Your Structure
Exercise 2: Structure & Rules
Video: Redefining or Un-Defining Your Relationship
Exercise 3: Success & Intimacy
Module III: Self-Responsibility & Communication
Video: Radical Self-Responsibility
Exercise 4: Life Evaluation
Exercise 5: Self-Reflection
Video: Navigating Boundaries, Making Offers & Requests
Exercise 6: Boundaries & Requests
Exercise 7: Compassionate Communication
Video: Compassionate Communication Demo
Bonus Videos: Raw Processin
Module IV: Becoming Bulletproof
Video: NRE & The Freak Out
Exercise 8: How is This Happening FOR Me?
Video: Creating Something Bulletproof
Exercise 9: Appreciation
Video: Get Support
Exercise 10: Support System

Give and receive love in an open and honest way

Learn to create sustainable relationships in which you and your partner(s) are free to love whomever you choose. A Guide to Opening Up is an 25-video course with 10 exercises that will help you move past the fears and challenges of opening up your relationship. After you watch this video series, you’ll be able to define polyamory and ethical non-monogamy and recognize how you can use it to transform your relationship.

Follow your heart

Free your relationship

This course is tailored to your situation, whether you’re just beginning to explore this kind of relationship or you’re already in one.

Embrace your openness

Take your relationship to the next level, achieve the success you want, and move past your limitations.

Follow your heart

Get a head start on relationships that work for you, and understand how to be polyamorous in a monogamous world.

Discover the life-changing benefits of consensual non-monogamy

What is polyamory? How do you explain polyamory to someone? How do you know if you are polyamorous? Find the answers and more in the Guide to Opening Up.

This online course will help you move past the limitations you may have about relationships and let you experience the greater possibilities of love, pleasure and fulfillment.

Unleash your desire

Get relationship guidance from an experienced couple

It’s scary to go it alone. Wouldn’t it feel better to have the support of experienced relationship coaches throughout the process? Conor and Brittany have been in an open relationship for 8 years and want to help others open their relationships in healthy, sustainable ways. Their mission is to give people who are curious about non-monogamous relationships a way to do so without worry.

Free your relationship